stereotypes are hard to break.. that being said, there are hints
of truth in many stereotypes...
however, the other stereotype which you ladies have shown is that
the lady usually pushes the men into positions where they know they
are not ready for... and to please the lady they love and would
give their right arms for, they rush into that which they are not
ready for... and into disaster...
men on the other hand, tend to not want to fix things if it's
okay.. why tinker with something which works? will marriage mean
that he loves her more?
i think that knowing the heart of your loved one is vital.. to
constantly converse, communicate...
more stereotypes which should be recognised and fixed.. the men
clam up and try to figure things out by themselves, causing worry
and anxiety in the lady (somehow, men are hardwired to do
that)...
women tend to torture their menfolk with "you should know why i'm
angry with you! and i'm not going to tell you!"
seems like both sides demand their partners to be telepathic or
something 
maybe somewhere in there, with hindsight, we should learn.. but we
never do 
